Crab basket effect: How to prevent others from being happy (probably …)

Maybe this could be due to the crab basket effect …

If one believes the reports of many fishermen, crabs are rather antisocial seafood: If you put several of them in a basket, the prisoners pull each other down and prevent each other from breaking away. No joke: As soon as a crab crawls up the basket wall and approaches the edge, it is apparently attacked and held back by its fellow inmates. Unbelievable, right? Where … 🤔 3600 Crab basket metaphor: man as a seafood 4379 In fact, the crab basket effect or crab basket metaphor is often transmitted to humans: as soon as a person stands out from a team, is particularly successful or even happy, it is sabotaged by others, attacked or otherwise trying to brake. People do not do that? It's true that

is criticized for her Hallux Valgus, Sophia Thiel, because she takes an Insta break and Heidi Klum gets a shitstorm for practically everything she does, is of course fully justified and not at all crabbed -like … (ironic undertone!)

20170907 On the other hand, we do not have to look that far up. Even less-appearing (in the sense of “star”) breakout crabs are often sabotaged by their immediate environment: from (dissatisfied) family members, (wrong) friends and – most often – superiors and colleagues. Of course, their methods are then by no means as conspicuous and unique as a hate commentary on Instagram or a crab attack in the basket. 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32768 014232646 Crab basket effect: 5 things with which others pull you down (targeted)

271733878 For completeness, it should be mentioned: Many people who prevent others from beaming, is not at all clear that they behave like seafood. They just follow their feelings and consider it perfectly normal and correct what they are doing. That probably does not make it much better – but according to psychologists, injuries hurt less if you do not even blame the perpetrators for evil intentions … 11648496

1. Criticism

Yes, criticism can be helpful and constructive! However, crab people use them mainly to dishonor their fellow human beings and reveal blemishes. “Uh, Meghan has a bump on her foot, but it looks ugly!”, “Heidi smoochs her story again with Tom – her children are so sorry for me.” Or “What good does it do to me, if you have the presentation have finished on time, but page () looks like she did an intern ?! ” Crab criticism is fundamentally negative, one-sided, unfair, destructive and can do nothing, except to hurt and unsettle – if you let them because of it …

. 2 Comparisons Crab people love to remind others that there are people who are better than them. Are you happy about a salary increase? If you were to earn as much as XY, you could spend four weeks at a time vacationing in the Caribbean. Proud, with yours () – hour Job finally found a balanced work-life balance? Well, XY is also bobbing two kids. Crab people diminish your successes and your happiness by putting them in the shadow of other, bigger successes – unless you do not allow that … 11512110

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