Crab basket effect: How to prevent others from being happy (probably …)

is criticized for her Hallux Valgus, Sophia Thiel, because she takes an Insta break and Heidi Klum gets a shitstorm for practically everything she does, is of course fully justified and not at all crabbed -like … (ironic undertone!)

20170907 On the other hand, we do not have to look that far up. Even less-appearing (in the sense of “star”) breakout crabs are often sabotaged by their immediate environment: from (dissatisfied) family members, (wrong) friends and – most often – superiors and colleagues. Of course, their methods are then by no means as conspicuous and unique as a hate commentary on Instagram or a crab attack in the basket. 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32768 014232646 Crab basket effect: 5 things with which others pull you down (targeted)

271733878 For completeness, it should be mentioned: Many people who prevent others from beaming, is not at all clear that they behave like seafood. They just follow their feelings and consider it perfectly normal and correct what they are doing. That probably does not make it much better – but according to psychologists, injuries hurt less if you do not even blame the perpetrators for evil intentions … 11648496

. 2 Comparisons Crab people love to remind others that there are people who are better than them. Are you happy about a salary increase? If you were to earn as much as XY, you could spend four weeks at a time vacationing in the Caribbean. Proud, with yours () – hour Job finally found a balanced work-life balance? Well, XY is also bobbing two kids. Crab people diminish your successes and your happiness by putting them in the shadow of other, bigger successes – unless you do not allow that … 11512110

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. 3 Unkindness

the contrary. Cold, rude, curt and impatient, human seafood encounters others when they fly high. Not so easy, because then every time to stand over it …

. 4 Aggressiveness

On Facebook or Instagram, such behavior can be observed very often. In direct contact and real life, the aggressiveness of crab-people often expresses in allegations, blame and Motzen. In part, they are therefore also confused with choleric or sorted as such.

. 5 Ballast

Although they certainly try to give the impression that they enjoy the happiness of others. But as soon as it is their turn, something incriminating comes from them. Wailing about their own misfortune, demands or other things that make a bad conscience and pull down. A particularly popular remedy such crab people is also the bad conscience, z. By 1350 emotional blackmail . Colleagues or supervisors simply use the ballast strategy by increasing the workload. “So nobody is under-challenged” – and the idea comes to strive for something higher … 48773 Then have a look in our 1007 Community