I'm tired – should I suggest having sex with others?

Oskar Holzberg, () , advises for more than His current book is called “New Key Phrases of Love” ( S., 20 Euro, Dumont).

869635 1350 © Ilona Habben 20170907 869635 10877600 12 Sex is wrestling in firm love relationships. Because one wants to go the “Bonobo way” and wants to eliminate all tensions through sex, while the other wants to have the tensions out of the world, in order to get involved again in sexual intimacy. And because the desire for each other is not always the same. Sometimes one wants more, sometimes not the other. This can lead to conflict patterns that block sexuality. 4971 Everyone has the right not to feel like 10877600 Everything that happens in a relationship affects sexuality. Therefore, the fundamental question is what has happened, that at least one's lust has passed. Because nobody has “just so” no more desire, as no one “just” times as a burn-out suffers. Everyone has the right not to feel like it. But sexuality in a partnership is not a purely individual experience. Therefore, it is important for the couple to understand how it happened. What events that led to feelings. 11040446 Anyone who otherwise seeks the partner for pleasure seeks to question the relationship itself. Because the release of sexuality is experienced by the wayward as a rejection. His or her sexuality, his or her desire, are devalued if it appears as if it is to be satisfied at will. Moreover, having sex with others almost always creates an intimacy outside the relationship, which then no longer exists in the relationship. The proposal to maintain the relationship by living one's sexuality with another is therefore paradoxical. The relationship will only live on if the couple is very trusting in exchange. But if a couple can be so open and intimate with one another, it can also resolve the blockages of their shared sexuality. Do you want to know more? to read and talk to other women about it? Then look in the “Relationship Everyday Forum” the 3600 BRIGITTE community past!

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(*) years in his Hamburg practice couples and gets repeatedly asked relationship questions. His current book is called “New Key Phrases of Love” ( S., 20 Euro, Dumont).