Pediatrician demands: “Mothers need relief!”

Karella Easwaran in this touching excerpt from the mom-mutmatic book “Wow Mom” ​​by Lisa Harmann and Katharina Nachtsheim. This text contains a Affiliate Link .

* only a baby is born – even a mother is born again in these enchanting hours and from then on has to find her way into a completely different world full of fears, doubts and worries. On the one hand there is this overwhelming luck to finally be able to hold his little baby in his arms. On the other hand, there is this big responsibility: this tiny baby depends entirely on us. As a new mom or new dad you can feel overwhelmed.

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, Karella Easwaran, why in her view mothers need much more relief – and the dwindling of our midwives must be stopped absolutely. 99597 Dr. Karella Easwaran is a pediatrician in Cologne, she comes from Ethiopia and grew up very differently than children here in Germany. She says: parents worry too much today. And she has tips on how we can change that. Because only if the mother is fine, it can also go well for the children – of which she is convinced.

“Mothers need relief!”

“Look at your baby, isn't it a miracle, when you look at your child, at how perfect it is, how cute it looks, how perfect it is, forget everything around you, and that is well, just enjoy it! 11040446 Because many parents worry too much today! 10877600

who cares for so many little patients: Does my child develop normally? Does he need help? Could I miss something? The baby does not sleep, the child does not crawl … changes.

I used to treat life-threatening meningitis, and today, much of my job is to calm, encourage, and support parents. 1016 Favorite phrase: 'Every infection gives her child five more years to live.' This phrase acts as balm on the soul of mum, it starts to smile and relieves parents of hearing that every infection trains the immune system. 1371335702 You are doing great with your child. * ! Really!

Do you remember how this set reduces pressure? How do you relax for a short time? Good thing, because that benefits your baby as well Healthy mothers mean healthy children All emotions are allowed No one has to be perfect Listen to your gut feeling!

“Parents in Germany are left alone too often” have so many worries. It's because they are left alone too often, that they lack the clan they can orient themselves to. Mothers do not have to do everything alone!

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What a pity! When my own sister was born, at that time we were still living in Ethiopia, cooking all the neighbors – as a matter of course. When my mother returned with the baby, the whole neighborhood cheered. A nice start of life. even the search for a midwife, because many can no longer afford their job by raising the amount of compulsory insurance. We can not permit that!

Midwives are the number one wrestlers for mothers. We can not do without her!

A Woman in childbed needs rest and security. A midwife helps at home, in a sheltered environment. Midwives bring care, experience and expertise to families. They are essential for women to develop self-confidence as a mother.

, build on and have the expertise that provides security. Many sequelae could be nipped in the bud by them. Midwives provide healthy mothers and children in the long term by laying the foundations for a positive relationship between mother and child. Because when a mother has faith, many problems resolve themselves. 1015

Many parents in my practice do not need a prescription. They need help from midwives, friends, family. 1016

And they need a rethinking for themselves: I call this beneficial thinking, beneficial thinking. Our brain spills out stress hormones if the child does not crawl, even though the guidebook says it should. , we sweat, are scared and worried. This also happens when we realize that we can not make it on time for the appointment with the gynecologist because our brain can not distinguish between real and false danger. It is important to ask yourself: Is the situation life threatening or not? Is late-onset at the doctor life-threatening?

No? Then take a deep breath, punctuality is not a dino that wants to eat us, a child who does not crawl is no danger. Also Babies are human, they develop differently, they do not work according to tables.

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Kaiserschmarrn, the word helps me in acute stressful situations. With Kaiserschmarrn I combine warmth and Austrian huts. Powdered sugar that melts on the tongue. I say this word aloud when I'm late again and the body overreacts. The brain then emits positive signals. My pulse goes down.

I think : Everyone should have such a codeword. One that helps when the baby is crying heartbreakingly. 1005

If you are mad at the partner. Or if something does not work out as we had imagined.

Which word could be used Cause you such comforting feelings? Your personal codeword and think about it in the next stress situation. You will see: it will help. And if it only makes for a little smile in your face. Smile is good for the immune system. And healthy mothers have healthy children ...

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