How do you recognize that you have a confident, mature partner by your side? So do not think about these sentences …
Do not we all just want a certain amount of maturity and self-confidence from our partner? That he is at peace with his feelings and does not play stupid games? Yes, yes, we would not let someone go that fast! But at the latest, when in our relationship one of these sentences falls, we know: That was probably nothing …
7 sentences that mature men would not say in the relationship
1. “That’s all your fault.”
In your relationship it just does not work that way? Congratulations, strong community service! A mature man would never blame his girlfriend for any problems in the partnership alone. Mature, self-confident men know that a crisis always includes two – and that they can only manage together if both take responsibility for their actions.
2. “We’ll talk about that another time.”
Mature men know what they want – and of course they can say it! Future plans, children’s wishes, career goals? In a partnership with self-confident men, such questions are clarified.
3. “Leave me, I’m fine …”
Boys do not cry? Maybe, but sometimes men – if they are confident enough! Mature men take their feelings true, serious and stand by. Especially in front of her partner, they would never hide their emotions, because they know that being strong does not mean that they do not feel anything.
4. “If you think so, that’s just how it is.”
Give in to rest? Not with a mature man! Self-confident people do not just give way to conflicts and confrontations, but clarify them – and do themselves, their partner and their relationship with a great favor!
5. “I did not ask for your opinion.”
Do not be talked into by the partner – typical for insecure men! But a self-confident man appreciates and respects the woman by his side and would never turn down her advice and support. If others find this to be small and unmanly, that’s their problem, but certainly not that of a mature man.
6. “You’re the total drama queen again.”
Just as they take their own feelings seriously, self-confident men, of course, also respect their partner’s feelings. She reacts very emotionally to an apparent trifle? Or is it bad for days? Then there is certainly something behind it! And finding out what it is, a mature man in the relationship feels just as responsible as for physical pleasure satisfaction, honest dealings with each other, a fair distribution of tasks … Just everything that concerns two people who share their lives together.
7. “I can not help it.”
Strong guys do not make mistakes? Error! It seems that whoever is never responsible for anything going wrong is not strong, but too weak and too insecure to admit mistakes and take responsibility for his actions. By contrast, self-confident men are not only self-critical and reflective, but also always accept criticism and feedback seriously.